Sexuality
It’s a Battle
The work of pursuing healing in our lives and relationships confronts us with the ways in which our understanding of intimacy and desire have been...
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Sexual Addiction, Misogyny, and Donald Trump
Recently, Becky Allender wrote about how current events have inspired her to reach out to her younger self and reclaim a sense of bold pride...
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A Pornographic Style of Relating
Last week, we shared an article by Andrew Bauman, a licensed mental health therapist who wrote about the struggle with pornography and the invitation to...
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Blessing Pornography: From Shame Toward Delight
Much of our work at The Allender Center is about inviting people to move toward restoration not by shaming our brokenness, but by magnifying our...
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Rain, Anniversaries, and Sex
This week, Becky Allender writes about frustration, rain, and marriage—reflecting on a day that happened to be her 39th wedding anniversary. What does intimacy look...
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Video: Dan Allender on the Role of Trauma in Sexual Exploitation
Dr. Dan Allender was recently featured in a series of videos to promote the vision and mission of Kristy’s House, an Indianapolis-based organization devoted to...
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Marriage, Part Six
This episode marks the conclusion of our six-part Marriage series, a conversation between Dan and Becky Allender. In case you missed any of it, you...
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On this week’s podcast, Dan and Becky Allender continue our six-part Marriage series, which began with Leaving (Part One, Part Two), moved to Cleaving (Part...
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