Memory and Story
“Our memories are our stories and there’s no story that we tell that isn’t from our vantage point,” says our guest this week, Cathy Loerzel,...
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Betrayal in Marriage
We all have experienced betrayal in our relationships. We typically think of betrayal as an affair or deception, and some of us may be quick...
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Attachment Stories in Marriage
Attachment is an emotional bond we feel with another person who responds to our needs. This begins as an infant as we attach (or fail...
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Family of Origin
So much of our beauty and brokenness — so much of what makes us who we are today — is tied to our family of...
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Parenting the Parent
Annie Allender Robbins and Amanda Christian join their dad, Dan Allender, for a personal and profound dialogue about how they were raised, how that shaped...
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Unresolvable Conflict
According to the research of the Gottman Institute, nearly 70% of relationship conflicts are unresolvable* – meaning, there is no clear right or wrong resolution....
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Act Justly, Love Mercy, Walk Humbly
Wendell Moss, lead instructor and facilitator at the Allender Center, joins Dan Allender on the podcast this week to discuss the crucial passage of Micah...
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Intentions for the New Year
Welcome to a new year of the Allender Center Podcast! This week, Dan and Becky Allender reconvene to look forward with anticipation and expectation. Dan...
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