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The Blame Game

by Becky Allender

We blame because we feel we must, but what if blame was no longer required in our series of tasks to complete? How might our...

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Self-Contempt as Addiction

by Andrew Bauman

Last week, Becky Allender reflected on her sometimes messy relationship with her aging body, and about how our culture trains us to view our imperfections...

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Video: Disrupting the Culture

by The Allender Center

In the conclusion of our video series engaging trauma, abuse, and healing, Dr. Dan Allender is joined by his friend and colleague Wendell Moss for...

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Blessing Pornography: From Shame Toward Delight

by Andrew Bauman

Much of our work at The Allender Center is about inviting people to move toward restoration not by shaming our brokenness, but by magnifying our...

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When Shame is Deeper than Salvation

by Andrew Bauman

It is common, particularly for Christians, to confuse humility and self-contempt, believing that avoiding the sin of pride means considering ourselves shameful and dirty. Here,...

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