Six Signs of Codependency
Abby Wong-Heffter writes that sacrificial love can devolve into a destructive form of codependency when we don’t allow space for our own needs and desires.
ReadStory Sage, Part Three
Dan Allender, Cathy Loerzel, and Rachael Clinton conclude their conversation about our upcoming online course, Story Sage, by exploring what might be the most volatile and dangerous terrain in this work: family of origin.
ListenStory Sage, Part Two
This week, as we gear up for our new Story Sage online course, Dan Allender, Cathy Loerzel, and Rachael Clinton continue their conversation about what it means to enter the stories of others with curiosity, attunement, and care.
ListenStory Sage, Part One
Dan Allender talks with Cathy Loerzel and Rachael Clinton about our upcoming online course, Story Sage, the work of facilitating healing in stories of harm.
ListenWhen I’m Sixty-Four
Becky Allender reflects on aging and re-learning what it means to step into the fullness of the beauty God created for her.
ReadDan and Becky Allender: Hiding No More, Part Two
Dan and Becky Allender continue their conversation about Becky’s new book, Hidden in Plain Sight, and about the boldness of stepping out of hiding and into calling.
ListenThe Debris of #MeToo
Laurie Proctor, a facilitator with The Allender Center, writes about how the #MeToo movement has stirred up her own memories of sexual abuse, reminding her that even as she empowers others, the work of telling her story is not over yet.
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