relationships

Enigmas, Shame, and the Myth of the Strong Silent Type
Beau Denton writes about the shallow promises of the strong silent type, and the need for connection even when we are not doing well.
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Family of Origin: Redeeming Triangulation
Dan and Becky Allender continue discussing triangulation, reminding us that no matter how deep the harm, our stories are still being written.
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Family of Origin: Triangulation
Dan and Becky Allender reflect on their own stories to explore how triangulation in our families of origin continues playing out even decades later.
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The Undervalued Magic of Friendship
Gabes Torres reflects on the often-belittled magic of friendship, and how it can offer a safe, holy space for the most vulnerable parts of ourselves.
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Family of Origin: Patterns and Particularities
Dan continues our Family of Origin series by discussing the need to engage both large, historic patterns and the minute details of particular stories.
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Family of Origin: Attachment and Epigenetics
Dan launches a new series about the need to engage family of origin issues, beginning with how both genetics and attachment history impact our lives today.
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Reconnection in Marriage, Part Two
Dan continues his conversation with Steve Call about how to reconnect in marriage, including the crucial categories of empathy, curiosity, and play.
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Reconnection in Marriage, Part One
Dan is joined by Dr. Steve Call, whose new book shares key findings from Steve’s years of experience helping cultivate reconnection in marriage.
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