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Family of Origin
So much of our beauty and brokenness — so much of what makes us who we are today — is tied to our family of...
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Grief & Gratitude with Family of Origin
As we prepare to celebrate the Thanksgiving holiday, Dan and Rachael continue their discussion on the intersection of grief and gratitude, focussing on how to...
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Guarding My Heart
Becky Allender reflects on how guarding herself against defensiveness opens her to tender, unexplored parts of her heart.
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Who Am I?
Becky Allender shares a poetic essay inspired by the I Am From project, an exploration of the people, places, and stories that help shape our identities.
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Family of Origin: Redeeming Triangulation
Dan and Becky Allender continue discussing triangulation, reminding us that no matter how deep the harm, our stories are still being written.
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Family of Origin: Triangulation
Dan and Becky Allender reflect on their own stories to explore how triangulation in our families of origin continues playing out even decades later.
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