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To Be Told Online Course

Featuring 3 sessions and 9 videos with compelling teaching from Dr. Dan Allender and a downloadable journal with reflection questions to go deeper. To Be Told is an online course designed to give you permission to explore how the goodness and pain in your life has shaped you. This journey opens the door to transforming your future.

Dr. Dan Allender

“It is time to listen to our own story.” - Dan Allender

Our stories shape and influence every dimension of our daily life and relationships. Knowing the impact of our stories and finding God’s redemptive work within them is vital for emotional, relational, and spiritual health. To Be Told is far more than the popularized movement to “know your story.” It is an invitation to truth-telling, healing lament, deep soulfulness, and lasting change.

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Course Includes

  • 3 lessons, each with 3-4 teaching videos
  • 8+ total hours of video teaching from Dr. Dan Allender
  • Downloadable PDF “Engaging Your Story: How To Guide”
  • Journaling and discussion prompts for self-reflection or small group discussions
  • Lifetime access to course platform and material

To Be Told led me not only to consider my story and how it affects my perspective on life, relationships, and God — but also to be mindful and curious about others and their stories. I was invited to examine parts of my story that were previously unexplored, providing insight for past choices and possibility for new ways of being in the future. I loved it. I wish everyone could have the same experience! — Participant from Houston, TX

Who is this for?

To Be Told is at the core of The Allender Center’s foundational story work and theory. If you are looking to engage your personal story in an online course format, this is the course for you!

Ways to Enroll

Go at your own pace

Our online course platform allows you to enroll at any time, worldwide, and move through the course at your own pace. Your enrollment fee grants you lifetime access to the content, allowing you to revisit the material at any time and from any location.

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Enroll as a group

This is an ideal course for groups that are looking to explore their journeys and how it is shaping their futures. Groups offer great companionship, and you can enjoy a 10% discount for those gathering with 5 people or more. The Allender Center does not arrange groups or offer social offerings for online courses at this time.

We highly recommend using our Leader Guide to facilitate your group as it equips you with the support, tools and material necessary for leading a rich group experience.

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If you’d like to talk more about our enrollment options and the best path for you, share your question or request a phone call by emailing

What You Will Learn

This course is created from a live recording of our To Be Told conference and has been edited and reformatted for an impactful online course experience.

Lesson 1

The Power of Story

Lesson 2

Faith, Hope and Love

Lesson 3

Archetypes & Redemption

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