Marriage Online Course

Featuring 8 sessions and 25 videos with compelling interaction and teaching from Dr. Dan Allender and Dr. Steve Call plus a downloadable journal with reflection questions to go deeper. This self-paced online course will help couples discover how personal stories shape their marriage story and find hopeful pathways forward.

“What if we dared to believe that we bear the image of God on behalf of our spouse?” - Dr. Steve Call

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Course Includes

  • 8 lessons and 25 videos
  • Downloadable journal and questions for discussion and reflection
  • 8+ total hours of video teaching and engagement
  • Lifetime access to course platform and material

"This season has been hard on my marriage and I wasn't sure an online course could help. But wow, it did! My husband and I were able to share stories we hadn't thought to tell in 15 years of marriage and connected them to ways we relate to each other today. The teaching really impacted us and we keep revisiting videos to unpack all that that's there. I'm so much more hopeful for our relationship now." - Course Participant

Who is this for?

Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, have been married for many years, are single, dating, or preparing to be married, this course is for anyone who wants to explore how trauma, conflict, shame, and your story intersect and impact your relationship.

Ways to Enroll

Go at your own pace

Our online course platform allows you to enroll at any time, worldwide, and move through the course at your own pace. Your enrollment fee grants you lifetime access to the content, allowing you to revisit the material at any time and from any location.


Enroll as a Group

This is an ideal course for groups that are looking to explore their relationships together. Groups offer an enhanced experience, and you can enjoy a 10% discount for those gathering with 5 people or more. The Allender Center does not arrange groups or offer social offerings for online courses at this time.


If you’d like to talk more about our enrollment options and the best path for you, share your question or request a phone call by emailing

What You Will Learn

Our stories shape and influence every dimension of our daily life and relationships. Every marriage opens the door to discover who we are, what we need, and what we uniquely have to give to one another. As you move through the course, you will gain insight and tools to help you engage your own and your partner’s stories and past heartache. Understand how the roots of shame and conflict originating in the Genesis story show up in your own relationship today. 

Lesson 1

Leave: Creating a New Loyalty

Lesson 2

Caught in the Web: Triangulation

Lesson 3

Weave: Connecting in Conflict

Lesson 4

Reconnecting Through Shame

Lesson 5

The Quadrants of Marriage

Lesson 6

Cleave: God Loves Sex

Lesson 7

The Impact of Trauma and Abuse

Lesson 8

The Way Forward

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