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Post Traumatic Single Disorder
As we pursue the deep work of cultivating restoration in our own stories and the stories of others, one thing becomes clear: trauma takes many...
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Held Together by Love
Our earliest attachment experiences—for better and for worse—have a deep and profound impact on the moments in our current, day-to-day lives. Here, Becky Allender writes...
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In the Quiet
In moments of quiet remembrance, as joy and sorrow mingle, we begin to realize that so much of our busyness is rooted in a fear...
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Tilling Forgiveness Through Love
As we pursue deep and lasting healing through engagement with our stories of harm, we often find that the level of kindness we can offer...
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Training Certificate Reflection: My Body a Shelter
Updated June 2020 A few years ago, we recorded “Training Wounded Healers,” a series on The Allender Center Podcast in which Dan Allender explored the...
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Excerpt from Healing the Wounded Heart
This month we’re celebrating the release of Dr. Dan Allender’s new book, Healing the Wounded Heart, a 25-year retrospective of everything Dan has learned about...
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Rain, Anniversaries, and Sex
This week, Becky Allender writes about frustration, rain, and marriage—reflecting on a day that happened to be her 39th wedding anniversary. What does intimacy look...
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Bringing Healing the Wounded Heart Conference to Wisconsin
Last November, we were thrilled to visit Manitowoc, Wisconsin for our Healing the Wounded Heart conference. Here, Autumn Bosch, Director of Group Counseling and Training at...
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