Relationships

Six Signs of Codependency
Abby Wong-Heffter writes that sacrificial love can devolve into a destructive form of codependency when we don’t allow space for our own needs and desires.
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Opening Up to Receive and Give
This week, Dan is joined by a longtime friend, Cary Umhau. Cary is the author of Burning Down the Fireproof Hotel, and her work has...
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Dealing with Difficult People, Part Three
Dan’s series on dealing with difficult people continues this week. Opening with Proverbs 21:22: (21:22): “A wise man scales the city of the mighty and...
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Dealing with Difficult People, Part Two
This week, Dan continues his series on dealing with difficult people. He provides three questions to consider about the nature of these relationships. He then...
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Dealing with Difficult People, Part One
This week, Dan begins a series on the subject of dealing with difficult people. He first outlines four major categories of difficult people in our...
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The Differentiated Self: Creating Healthy Relationship
The term “differentiation” has recently come up in my own individual therapy as one of the core issues that I must address within myself. My...
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Design of Desire
The Design of Desire conference invites us to envision and cultivate healthier connections, a more holistic view of sexuality, and a deeper understanding of how...
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The Fight
The fight had been ridiculous. Ten minutes after the explosion I couldn’t recall what it had been about and certainly three decades ago I can’t...
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