Relationships
Why I Am Insecure—and Want My Wife to Pay for It
Most of us learned to develop defensive structures and strategies to protect ourselves from painful situations and relationships in our past. But what happens when...
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Wisdom in Relationships
This week on The Allender Center Podcast, Dan Allender concludes our series about wisdom by discussing what it looks like to relate to others and...
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Held Together by Love
Our earliest attachment experiences—for better and for worse—have a deep and profound impact on the moments in our current, day-to-day lives. Here, Becky Allender writes...
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The Nature of Friendship, Part Two, with Dan Allender and Tremper Longman
This week on The Allender Center Podcast, Dr. Dan Allender continues last week’s conversation with his long-time friend, Dr. Tremper Longman, III. Dan and Tremper...
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This week on The Allender Center Podcast, Dr. Dan Allender is joined by his long-time friend, Dr. Tremper Longman, III, who was in town to...
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Tilling Forgiveness Through Love
As we pursue deep and lasting healing through engagement with our stories of harm, we often find that the level of kindness we can offer...
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Rain, Anniversaries, and Sex
This week, Becky Allender writes about frustration, rain, and marriage—reflecting on a day that happened to be her 39th wedding anniversary. What does intimacy look...
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Listener Questions, Part Three
On last week’s podcast, Dan began responding to this question we received from a listener: “As I work deeper into my story, how can I...
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